Draw a Line

Dear Young Couples,

Married life is something very precious for a lifelong living. Modernity and socialness has brought destruction to many families. We need to draw certain lines in our relationships. Here are a few tips.

• Private life is between a husband / wife only. Do not share anything with anyone at any time and at any cost.

• Always speak the positive aspects of your spouse to outsiders and friends.

• In the name of modernity, one need not hold the hands of opposite sex or tap one’s shoulder or hug them.

• Do not get into trouble conversing about the dress, personality, style, complexion with opposite sex person either in office or church or anywhere.

• Just to get easy way up in the office or to get things done or to get appreciation or attention, need to meet person of opposite sex alone or to have sugar coated talk with them.

• Everyone needs to be careful in appointing young house maids at home.

• Avoid taking a person of opposite sex in your vehicles. This may bring unnecessary problems in your own family life.

• Shall all your intimate feelings only with your husband or wife only. Spouses be willing to listen and spend time with each other, at least an hour daily. This is the best tonic for your family happiness.

• If there are any issues in your sexual life, better to seek medical advice and not to be shared with any friend or family members. This may put the spouse in embarrassing position.

• Leave off any relationships which your husband / wife doesn’t like.

• Never carry over problems from our office to your home or vice versa.

“My beloved is mine and I am his.” (Song of Songs 2:16)

‘The Couple who prays together, stays together’ – Try this daily. Hold Hand and Pray. Impossibilities becomes possible.