Termites..!

These small termites eat away an entire tree or structures over a period of time, without any indication in the outside, erodes the inside slowly and steadily. And on day this big tree falls down.

Issue like ‘termites’ can erode family happiness over a period of time. Should we not take precautions against these termites, as you are 10 years and above of married life.

• Getting irritated, arguing and shouting against each other frequently for nothing!
• Not having a mind to openly appreciate your Husband / Wife either alone, or in front of others.
• Fault finders, especially pointing out the mistakes in front of your own children.
• Not openly sharing ones feeling, leading to suspicions.
• Non cooperation in house – hold duties.
• Very stubbornness to fulfill each others’ sexual desires.
• Unable to openly express even a loving word or gesture for each other.
• A husband who does not spend quality time with his own wife and children daily.
• Married is a covenant between husband and wife only, no other person to be given undue importance.
• Loving all others, except ones’ spouse.
• Lack of family prayer, personal Bible meditation and praying time.
• Not discussing issues with spouse but taking decisions without consultations.
• Recalling past bitter experiences frequently and creating tension at home.
• Not talking with each other for day(s), weeks, sometimes even years.
• Hating each other relatives or in-laws, rather than living peacefully with them.

“Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ” (Ephesians 5:21)